Sunday, December 30, 2007

ABC News: Why Your Internet Job Search Isn't Working

Unemployed and looking for a job on the internet? Yeah...me too! This article tells you what you are doing wrong...I think.

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Thursday, December 20, 2007

Never depend on anyone

Always be true to thyself

Always understand that when it comes down to it

You are the only one

Know that no man will ever always be there

Know that they too are human

Guard you heart & soul

Know that words mean nothing if they come from

someone else

Be strong, independent & regal

Be stoic & sure

Be direct, honest & always fair

Love God first & then thyself

Because God is you & you are God

Always be true


You are the only one

The one that matters, the one that counts


Your Mom was always in front

Now she is behind

Watching you, looking at her work

Make her proud

Be the woman that she is


Never depend on anyone

Always be true to thyself

Black Power”


The 60’s, oh they where great

They showed my generation how to fight

It’s the 90’s & where are my brothers & sisters of

yester year?

Where are they when my generation is getting

killed ?

Daily, weekly even hourly

Where are they?

Where is the guidance?

The guidance died with the movement

So what are we to do?

Fight on black brother & sister… fight on

Mystery Man”


He comes to me in my dreams

I don’t know why

He never says what he feels

I don’t know why

He always makes me smile

I don’t know why

Why must his tar black hair, butter pecan colored skin

embrace me without a single touch?

Why must he make my heart flutter with his scent in my

air?


One day he will make his self known

He will not only be in my dreams

He will be in my life


I will feel his touch

The sensation will send my spirits flying

I will know what he wants & feels

He will be mine for always

My smiles will never cease

Because he is in my life


My mystery man will no longer be a mystery

He will be mine

How do you let the pain slip away

Does it ever leave

Does it ever ease

My heart yearns for someone to love

But never someone who feels the same

I look for you, but you never come

I’m looking for someone to love

Why can’t you be here with me now?

When my heart is in so much pain

My life never seems to ease

There is always some form of pain

Pain that never seems to ease

I’m yearning for someone to love

So where are you?

Losing Aunt Dorothy

Dorothy Lumpkin Wier was my only aunt. To me she represented a strong woman who could out think, out wit and overcome any obstacle. Fall of 1994 I was told she had pancreatic cancer and that her chances of survival were not good. In fact I was told that she was not going to survive.

After I recovered from the initial shock I began to imagine life without her. In the beginning I went through a long phase of denial that fooled me into thinking she would overcome. Reality set in however when I visited her in March and saw she had lost over 90 pounds. Dorothy no longer seemed invincible.

Almost three weeks went by before my final visit and she was worse off than I could have imagined. I took a seat beside her bed with my brother as we held her hand and said “I love you”. Her friend told us she wanted to see use before she died. As we were there she breathed a sigh of relief and gratitude and took her final breath.

My first reaction was denial. I did not want to believe she was gone from my life; nor could I understand why God had to take her. After I cried I began to realize that her suffering was over and that she was finally at peace. Her pain and agony was over and she was with her father, brother and mother in heaven.

It was torture watching her dwindle down to an almost skeleton. Dorothy was a big woman over six feet tall her weight was proportionate to her height. When she finally died she weighed less than 110 pounds. The sight of her crushed me completely.

Although there are moments when I am upset with God for taking her before I was ready to let go I know that she is in my heart and I will see her again. Dorothy touched my heart and soul in ways that have not been matched and I will always cherish our time together.

Sunday, December 9, 2007




"Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results." -Willie Nelson

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Another One Bites the Dust

Another guy, another day.

Trying to generate a relationship, no matter how small via text messages just do not mix. At least for this girl who hearing a voice and having a LIVE active conversation. So a new guy, who only knew how to communicate via text messages has bit the dust. I guess me not really responding to texts was the down fall. However, if you see I did not respond what is preventing you from using the feature that says "Call Sender"? What!?

Make It Right....

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